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Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Jesus and Social Media

Jesus doesn't have an official facebook or twitter account, yet there are many of them that use His name. I always think it interesting when one of my friend's like Jesus' status. Or the Bible's status - that one always stands out as well when it goes rolling by on the ticker.

I do like the video on what it would have been like if Mary and Joseph had Facebook. If you haven't seen it, you can check it out here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMS9zTTH6fI
Watching it again this week reminded me how different things might have been if social media had been around all those years. I wonder if Moses would have been as receptive had God sent a tweet instead of a burning bush? If they had GPS and google maps, would they have wandered 40 years in the desert? If they had had Urban Spoon, would they have needed manna? I We could look back in a lot of the familiar Bible stories and wonder what would have been different had they had an app for that.

Are we becoming too dependent on apps and social media? I don't mean just the fact that we have to check in so many times a day. Are we actually experiencing life of are we using an app and missing out on some of the adventure, some of the challenge, some of the fun, maybe even some of the blessings?


I think we miss so many opportunities when it comes to social media and ministry. Everyday so many prayer requests come across my facebook. Are we following up and actually utilizing this network to be prayer warriors and intercessors? Along with the few friends I follow on Twitter, I follow several pastors and writers. I try to pay attention to what they post, but sometimes, I just sort of pass them by to see what my friends are actually up to.

Today, I have paid more attention to the tweets and the messages that are speaking to me. My day didn't start out the best - crazy morning at my house- and I was not in the best frame of mind. I really just wanted to sit down and cry. I know it doesn't help. Sometimes, I do it anyway. A tweet came across my phone: God's plans for you life far exceed the circumstances of your day. Thank you, Louis Giglio. I needed to hear that. A little later in the day, a message was on the television. The television was on mute, and this was just text on the screen - about not worrying about what you cannot change - it was a slight variation of the serenity prayer - and was something I needed to be reminded of today.

Maybe the way we use the information we gain by social media needs to change. Any suggestions?

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Delivering Gifts

Our church has a ministry called Sidewalk Sunday School. There is a very small community near us. I would guess the entire zip code lives below the poverty level. The last Saturday before Christmas we provide shoebox gifts for all of the children. It is always the highest attended session of the year.

This year, we provided 195 gifts. When the distribution was over, we had 6 boy gifts left and were short 17 girl gifts. Dean, Nancy and I spent the rest of Saturday shopping for those 17 girls. This afternoon, we went out to Westway to deliver the gifts.

We  had 13 stops to make. Many of the houses were not necessarily liveable. I think the saddest for us was a family that had at least three daughters - we delivered gifts for all three. There could be more children as so many other children received gifts yesterday. The house they lived in was a very small, very old mobile home. I grew up in a 14x80. Dean and I lived in a 12x60. This one was probably smaller than the one Dean and I lived in. There was a lean-to attached. That was where the Christmas tree was. The girls were so very excited to get their gifts. We were excited to give them to them, too.


Friday, December 16, 2011

an odd job interview and a good turn out on my van

Right before Thanksgiving, Dean and I bought a used van. I had been looking for a while, but I had not found 'the one.' I know I don't have little kids or grand kids to haul in a mini van, but man it sure is nice for hauling lights, props, and backdrops for photography! When I found this Honda at a local dealer, Shamaley GMC,we really liked it. We went in to look and came home with a van. We were super excited. It looked wonderful. As we looked a little closer, we noticed some issues with the exterior. The ad had said there was no damage to exterior, so of course we were pretty disappointed. I responded to the email survey with our disappointment. The next morning I received an email from Mr. Shamaley and a phone call from the general manager. They were going to make it right! I was so excited. Now, my van looks amazing! Just as it had been advertised. Thanks so much Shamaley GMC for making me a very satisfied customer!

Dean had a phone interview yesterday. The job would have been interesting for him and the location would have been a new experience for us. They had agreed to do a phone interview. It started badly when they called him 55 minutes early. He was not in the best location for cell service. Dean goes by his middle name - usually not a problem. He had emailed the HR person several times - each time the gentleman addressed him as Dean. He started the interview off by asking for Bill. Just because your name is William, do you have to be called Bill? Dean politely told him he uses Dean. He kept calling him Bill. A little while in, he asked if he went by Bill or William. Again, Dean told him Dean. Probably God's way of saying I am not calling 'Dean' to this location. Back to the drawing board - or job boards if you will.

Supposedly the first round of layoffs is being moved to January. He feels he will be safe until at least April when his division ends. Praying for the best situation at the best time!

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Making a List (or twelve)

And checking it twice, three times . . .

My current list (and all the sub-lists) is super long. I like lists - I like the sense of accomplishment I feel when I mark things off. I have been using the post it notes on my computer- not sure I like them. There is no way to mark things off. I want a real list- with a highlighter, so I can see how much I have done.

Over the next three weeks, so many things will be added onto the list and marked off the list.

In two weeks time, we will be at our hotel in TN. So much to do in two weeks!

My list for photos is really, really long - trying to get everyone's last minute orders is making me last minute, too. Not complaining - rejoicing in the fact that I have business. I still have a photo session tomorrow, three more sessions to finish editing and order. Two more re-orders. A senior session for the 19th. Being a photographer is really busy at Christmas time!

Then there are the lists of things to pack. I am pretty well set to start packing all my things - once I figure what all I need to pack - there are lots and lots of events to go to - and then there is the time Dean and I have on our own after the wedding. Will we be going to Maryland for the interview? Will we just hang out in NC and visit with my dad and sister before going on to Eric & Ashley's to deliver their stuff and Ranger? Hmm, my list is not quite so positive as to what to pack at the moment. I need to work on that sub-list :)

I have a list of things to take for Eric.

We are not doing much gift exchanging for Christmas this year, so that list is really short.

There is the list of things I am selling on Craigslist.

Then there is another wedding to start making lists for.



Maybe I should invest in a 6 pack of notebooks.




Off to work on my lists . . . .
 

Friday, December 9, 2011

Job Hunting

We go weeks and weeks and hear nothing - then we get lots of hope - only to have it dashed again. And then the cycle begins again.

This week has been one of those with lots of hope - it started with an 8 am interview on Monday and ended with an invitation for an interview next week - 2000 miles away. He thought the interview went well. They want to put him on a proposal for a job on the east coast. Great. But who knows when that would happen. April is coming soon - very soon.

Last night we sent in 5 applications for the same company. Today we got back 2 that said no thank you - but there were 3 we didn't hear from. Does that mean that he is being considered for the other three?

And then, there was the email scheduling him for an interview. We applied for the job a month ago and had heard nothing since. Then, today an email telling him he has an interview Thursday at 3:45. Do we spend 500 to send him there? Is the job actually worth it? Can they wait until the first week of January when we are already on the east coast? Does even the top of their pay scale justify a move there? Are moving expenses covered? So many questions - and of course - they didn't send the email until it was too late to respond and have some of our questions answered. 

Prayers would be appreciated! 

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Fortune Cookie Anyone?

Fortune cookies are a fun part of eating Chinese. I must say that I do not believe in fortune telling, psychics, etc. For me, fortune cookies are just fun. I know most of us add "in bed" to the end of the fortune making it even more daring and fun. I am just getting the "I don't believe in Fortune Cookies" out of the way :)

Dean has been job hunting for quite a while. In May he turned down a job with a company that has two words in the name - both of these words could be considered nautical. Last week, there were more jobs in other locations listed on their site. Because the company is a reputable company, he reapplied for the new positions. On Monday, he received a phone call from this company - they wanted to meet with him next week about a position in the same location he had turned down before. That would not be our first preference, but April is coming fast and a job is going to be necessary. After a phone call and a couple of emails, he was informed that he would be getting a phone call that evening to schedule an interview this coming Monday.

The email didn't come.

We went to dinner.

 Ate Chines.

Talked about this company with the two word nautical name as well as other potential opportunities to look into.

Broke our fortune cookies. Dean said, "hmmm."  Mine was rather ho-hum even adding "in bed" to it. Instead of reading his, Dean handed it to me. I read, "Boats and Water are in your future." We started laughing. In bed really didn't fit, but a two word nautical phrase did.

The next day there was not contact either. Finally, early Friday morning, he got an email asking him to call on Sunday at 5pm to set up an appointment to meet.

Again, I don't believe in fortunes, but it did strike us as funny. Prayers for the interview would be greatly appreciated. We don't even have any idea where the position would be or if they even have one currently. He just took the opportunity, knowing they would be here in town, to ask for an interview.